It seems to me that some people can be overly ambitious when it comes go dating. Am I the only one not entirely focused on finding prince charming? Except for mssinglemama of course who said “prince charming can kiss my ass. Unless he’s gonna sweep me off my feet. We shall see ” she gets it…being mom comes first now. That’s just the way it is when you have kids. Unless course I missed a memo or something….always a possibility.
I have been a single mommy of one for 7 years. Do I want to find mr right? Of course, don’t be stupid, who doesn’t. However unless he falls in my lap I’m not going to find him. And a wise old man once told me “just because he falls in your lap doesn’t mean you can’t push him off” Hmmmmm…interesting concept, especially when the only thing that falls in my lap is trouble. Duely noted:)
I have one little girl, just one. Only one I’m going to have. The devil chute is outta order. I’m not going to waste my time chasing dick, I’m going to spend my time enjoying being mommy. If love finds me, fine. If not, eh…I’ll get some cats to keep me company in my old age. Maybe get a hobby…knitting or bingo or napping
Single Parent Bloggers Rock;>
You’re one smart mama.
Before JME and I decided to be together I couldn’t have cared less about finding someone to be with.. to be honest I think it seemed like too much work for me — juggling a relationship and raising a child.
In some instances I still firmly believe that (like if my son’s father and I were together — it’d be like having two 2 year olds..) but I think I got lucky with JME.
Finding someone is convenient but that doesn’t make them the right person for you, right?
Thank you!
Thats a good question…..
I had a relationship for 3 years which was shit but it was convenient. I knew that he wasnt the right person for me but I didnt leave right away. At the time I thought…”Ill survive”
Now I think that surviving it doesnt make it ok…….
And I seem to attract complete and total jerks:)
I should have that put on a tee shirt! I heart jerks….or so it seems
PS-LOVE your blog! Your $1 can change a life mission is such a great idea! Id love to help if I can!