He called me a racist & trailer trash….

Call me a bitch.  See if I care. 

I won’t because I am a bitch…thats Ms bitch to you.

Call me a shank, whore, slut, twatwaffel or cunt.  See if I care.

I won’t because those are just fun words to me.

 Call me a racist and you’ve got yourself a mighty pissed off bitch with a colorful vocabulary.

ima bitch

Why does being called a racist bother me more than being called a whore?  One reason…we all no the bitter bitch that won’t put out can’t be the whore. Conflicting roles…it’ll never work.   But the main reason is this…I hate racism.

I have spent my entire life defending and standing up for “minorites”.  Why? Because…not liking someone because of their race is unfuckingacceptable that’s why!  Character not color people!!  I grew up surrounded by Asians, hispanics and blacks.  White kids were out numbered in my school but noone noticed.  I have more not white friends than I have white friends alright….ask my classmates lol!  I grew up with old school grandparents who dropped the n-bomb like it was no big deal…it wasn’t to them….but it was to me.  I grew up wanting to save the world from racism.  I insisted that my parents didnt like my boyfriends because they werent white dudes….I was arrested simply because I was with asians who got into a fight with white dudes.  The white dudes didnt get arrested….we did!   As I grew up however I learned that I should be defending and standing up for what and whom I believe in regardless if the person I agreed with was the lil Asian lady at the supermarket or the mouthy white chick with a big mouth and lots of interesting things to say.  I found myself standing up for people because they were “minorities”.  That makes no sense?!  What the shit?!  Suddenly I found myself defending all the wrong people…mostly myself.  My parents didnt like my boyfriends because I dated felons and drug lords!  Here I was screaming for everyone to stop picking on the minorities and give them a break cause  we owe them.  Huh?!  Yeah I know…like I personally owe the world. Pssshhh


I didn’t make the choices of the past that were unacceptable, insensative and evil  like slavery and segregation.  I learned about them just like everyone else my age…..history books!   You weren’t there and neither was I so let’s just move on…equally.  Let’s teach our children to move on and carry on as equals.  Ive taught my daughter who is biracial to judge character not color.  Color is a thing of the past….and yes in the past blacks were treated incredibly poorly in the past.  God bless Rosa Parks & MLK jr for taking on the intolerable way of life that they were being forced to live.  (The PIT played the best lil Rosa Parks in here school play too btw)  Its 2009 and although Im sure there are still some racist folks out there….I am not one of them.  Never have been….but what really chaps my ass in this day in age is this “victim” shit. 

 

Last night @UnitedDiaspora compared Michael Jackson and his “alleged” child molesting charges to ex presidents who owned slaves and called me racist.  You should never throw the “R” word around when you dont know someone.  Thats as offensive to me as the “N” word is to you sir.  Knock it off.  This kind gentleman went on to inform me that having a biracial baby does not mean I am not racist….it means Im from the trailer park.  Ignorance is bliss sir and may I just say…..FUCK YOU.   Im curious here Mr high and mighty…..if I assumed you grew up in the ghetto and have a criminal record would that be appropriate?  Nope, it wouldnt.  I dont know you or where you came from…..quite frankly I dont care either.  You’re not a victim because your black sir…..you didnt achieve anything…you were born that way just like I was born white.  And while I acknowledge and teach my daughter about the history of this country….all of it….the good the bad and the ugly…..I will NOT ever once tell her that being a minority make you a victim.  She is not a victim because shes biracial….shes fucking gorgeous!  You sir, @UnitedDiaspora , are not a victim.  Actually I find your remarks rather racist and narrowminded.  I also found your blog to be quite narrow minded as well.  Your tolerance for white folks is amazing!  HIPOCRITE.  You are a PERFECT example of ACT EQUAL and BE TREATED EQUAL. Act a fool….Ill gladly treatcha like a fool;)

7 Responses to He called me a racist & trailer trash….

  1. It’s amazing how idiotic people can be.

  2. okay so i need more background about this whole story and this guy that accused you of this…..

  3. notyouraveragesinglemomma

    Here ya go Holly!!

    Alright….last night I was tweeting around on twitter and posted “P Diddy Combs compared Michael Jackson to Kennedy and Elvis? seriously? (via @JanSimpson)<< I don't remember Kennedy sharing his bed w/ kids" and also "I think I'm the only person in the world who was never that amused by michael jackson. I was repulsed when he toungue kissed lisa marie tho"
    I got a reply from a person I do not know that said this: "People hate MJ for charges he was acquitted of yet excuse ex-presidents for owning slaves. Racist much? (via @UnitedDiaspora)"

    Ah ok…what the fuck does that have to do with the price of tea in China?! So being the lippy bitch I am I replied "the accusations are enough to make me hatecha. And I love how folks pull the race card. Newsflash suckah-I dislike all races. also mr mighty race player..my child is biracial so….suck it:)"

    To which he replied: "ur baby bein by a blk guy doesnt mean ur not racist means u live in a trailer (@UnitedDiaspora)"

    And that my friends = GAME ON BITCH:)

    So I replied "I never said my child was with a black man. Biracial doesn't mean black. Your assumptions make you very ignorant sir. it's ppl like u who make ppl racist darling. Ur black.big deal. Get over urself. Act equal and be treated equal. ps..never lived in a trailer. That would be like me assuming ur ghettofab. Given what u said, ur clearly an ass….asses come in all colors to so don't play the race shit babe. Ur ass because ur a narrow mind man."

    The whole thing royally pissed me off thus sending me into a big fat rant that I call my blog! :)

  4. Feels good to get things off your chest! :) You go girl!!

  5. HOLY OMG SHIT…where was I for this – DAMN TWITTER BERRY! I hate people like that – I mean who the fuck are you and why should I give a rats ass?? What a loser – I think we should start an unfollow friday on him and @wordswellsaid which was the guy attaching @mommy2jl on the single mother thing. These guys don’t know who they are messing with! Rock on sister you totally put that dude in his place and kicked ass doing it. Loves ya!

  6. I grew up in S. Mpls with all kinds of folks. My father used to sing the song from the movie “South Pacific”, the line I remember most is ~ “You’ve got to be taught to learn how to hate, before you are 6 or 7 or 8, you’ve got to be carefully taught”. Children love unconditionally, they don’t look at color, they have to be taught racism.

    So sad.

    I know it’s an old movie but totally ~ everyone should Netflix this one!

    Christeen, you’re little girl is amazing, she is biracial, I am biracial but of different races. She is of Asian and European descent, I am Native American and European yet, my man thinks she looks just like me and it makes me proud. I love that baby!
    You are doing an amazing job as a single mom!

    Love ya girl,
    Patti

    p.s.
    Another issue that I had to face was a blended family with what are commonly called “Step Children” issues. Well, like I said, we considered ourselves a blended family, we had “stairs” that brought us to another level of our home but I refuesd to let the word “step” be used in relation to anyone in our family.

  7. singlemomsurvives

    Love it ;)

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