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		<title>A time you feared for the safety of a loved one.</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/10/21/chapter-7-in-the-book-of-meth/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2010 12:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was a prompt from Mama Kat this week that caught my attention. 5.) A time you feared for the safety of a loved one. I&#8217;ve told this story before.  It&#8217;s from the scariest time in my life. New mother, &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/10/21/chapter-7-in-the-book-of-meth/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=265&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What color was my what?!</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/07/01/what-color-was-my-what/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 19:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was once said that I was lucky that I hadn’t been burnt so bad by love that Id completely given up. Clearly a memo was missed. I happen to think that having your “husband” cheat on you with not &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/07/01/what-color-was-my-what/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=966&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>To be continued</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/05/19/to-be-continued/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 03:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In case you missed it, I took on a new challenge from THE GlamRomantic (Morgan). Nothing new, I am always eager to take on any of Morgan&#8217;s challenges. That&#8217;s the thing&#8230;I take the challenge&#8230;.and then&#8230;and then&#8230;&#8230;and THEN&#8230;&#8230;AND.THEN?! Nothing. I&#8217;m horrible &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/05/19/to-be-continued/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2749&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Revisiting my mission&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/04/19/my-new-mission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 00:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I generally keep quiet when it comes to talking about relationships let&#8217;s face it&#8230;I don&#8217;t know shit about relationships Or do I? Depends how ya look at it I guess. When I rip on my girlfriends (I&#8217;m always the bad &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/04/19/my-new-mission/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=698&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>She misses her what?</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/04/06/she-misses-her-what/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 16:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I said before&#8230;terminating Mr Meths parental rights is one choice I&#8217;ve always been certain was right.  However, being right doesn&#8217;t mean there isn&#8217;t a little heartbreak here &#38; there&#8230;&#8230;. “Momma?” she said in a quiet tone. I turned to &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/04/06/she-misses-her-what/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=952&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Step 3&#8211;Lessons learned</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/30/step-3-lessons-learned/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 02:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The only true failure in life is to NOT learn from it&#8217;s lessons.  I&#8217;ve been more than open with my mistakes but I&#8217;ve been rather vague when it comes to what exactly I&#8217;ve learned.  Kinda makes ya wonder if I &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/30/step-3-lessons-learned/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2299&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Another toe into step 2</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/28/another-toe-into-step-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 16:24:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[He wasn’t the one that got me to break.   He’s just the one that I blame for everything.  He let me down in a major way.  I hate being let down.  He dropped me just when I needed him the &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/28/another-toe-into-step-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2260&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Step 2&#8230;.Im only putting my pinky toe into step 2 for now&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/26/step-2-im-only-putting-my-pinky-toe-into-step-2-for-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 15:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>singlemama_cc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Step 2:  LET GO. Not a new concept. I&#8217;ve tried it a few times&#8230;but I always failed Not this time baby If you ask me I think I have more than earned the right to hate my meth addicted he-whoreing &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/26/step-2-im-only-putting-my-pinky-toe-into-step-2-for-now/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2254&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>As usual, steps have turned into chapters</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/25/as-usual-steps-have-turned-into-chapters/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:13:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>singlemama_cc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed how much bitch bitch bitch and how little I actually DO? Yes, I&#8217;m fully aware I just called myself out&#8230;again. It had to be done. Quite frankly&#8230;I&#8217;m annoyed with myself running around in circles like a &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/25/as-usual-steps-have-turned-into-chapters/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2231&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Time to call my own bullshit</title>
		<link>http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/24/time-to-call-my-own-bullshit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 02:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>singlemama_cc</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;I married my hs sweetheart but divorced a crazy meth addict and rebounded to a mean drunk…way to go champ… *sigh*  I decided to revoke my own right to date until I’m done being a fucktard when it comes to &#8230; <a href="http://notyouraveragesinglemomma.com/2010/03/24/time-to-call-my-own-bullshit/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=notyouraveragesinglemomma.com&amp;blog=7432163&amp;post=2219&amp;subd=notyouraveragesinglemomma&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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